NEW MOTHER, by Allie Chee
Plan a loving, gentle birth and healing postpartum • Select your support team • Understand your choices • Birth your way
Tuesday, May 27, 2014
For a gentle, loving childbirth at home or in the hospital...
With 85% of US births considered traumatic for mother and child, how can we create the gentle, loving childbirth and postpartum WE ALL WANT?
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THE C-SECTION EPIDEMIC: Are WE Culpable & What Can We Do About It?
Microbirth - The New Film from One World Birth |
There is a global c-section epidemic. Both mothers and babies are suffering trauma and health risks. New research is emerging indicating that the health of society at large is being compromised as a result.
While the reasons for the epidemic are varied and complex, awareness is growing (thanks in large part to mothers, birth workers, and advocates using social media). Earlier this year, The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists and the Society for Maternal-Fetal Medicine, jointly-issued the Obstetric Care Consensus, stating that allowing most women with low-risk pregnancies to spend more time in the first stage of labor may avoid unnecessary cesareans [1] (long understood in the world of midwifery).
Despite the growing awareness, US C-section rates (approximately 1/3 of all births) remain far in excess of the WHO standard: “The estimated proportion of births by caesarean in the population is not less than 5% or more than 15%.”[2] (Note that 15% is not the rate it “should be,” but the very high end of what could be expected.)
Of course there are some hospitals and OBs with decreasing C-section rates, but the fact remains that, based on the WHO guideline, 55-85% of the C-sections performed in the US are in excess of what should be required.
Alarmingly, maternal mortality rate is higher in the US than in China[3] despite the fact that China has a dramatically higher C-section rate (47%).[4] Worse, Abigail Higgins reports: “Eugene Declercq, of Boston University's School of Public Health, produced a short film named Birth by the Numbers discussing maternal mortality in the US. In a 2013 follow-up report, he noted that mortality rates in other industrialized nations had declined - while in the US, it increased by 30 percent in the first decade of the new millennium,”[5] partially due to C-sections. [6]
Not only are c-section rates climbing, but surgery is being forced on women against their will. In April this year, a woman was “kidnapped” from her home by authorities in Brazil to make her comply with her doctor’s demand that she have a c-section.[7]
And just last week in what the Inquisitor said could be termed a violation of the most basic of feminine, or even human, rights, a woman in Staten Island was forced, against her will, to undergo a cesarean section.[8]
Are We Culpable in the C-Section Epidemic?
As the friends, family, and caretakers of the victims of C-section abuse, we are unwitting accomplices to the tolerance and acceptance as “normal” of C-section rates of 33% (US hospitals), and even of 90% (private hospital rates in Brazil) when, by contrast, the rate at The Farm from 1970-2000 was 1.4%[9] (lower than would be expected in any medical facility, but the statistic and their work (www.thefarmmidwives.org) merit consideration. See footnotes*)
With one sentence—“At least you had a healthy baby”—we unconsciously endorse the system that has created the phenomenon of the “emergency birth,” and the perception that birth is dangerous enough to frequently require surgical intervention to “save” mom and/or baby.
There are dozens of reasons never to utter those words to a new mother after her C-section (all actually nuances of the single problem that it makes us accomplices). Here are the top seven.
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Saturday, December 7, 2013
Gentle Methods to PREVENT & TURN a Breech Baby
Gentle Methods to PREVENT & TURN a Breech Baby
Interview with Dr.
Daoshing Ni and Dr. Jessica Chen, by Allie Chee
Just the word “breech” can strike fear in pregnant women—and rightfully so.
In the U.S. hospital environment, a breech
presentation would “almost certainly mean a cesarean section, considered
major abdominal surgery that generally leads to longer hospital stays, longer
recovery and, like all surgery, the risk of complications[1]”—and loss of any hope of a natural childbirth
experience.
In the case of home birth with a midwife,
some midwives will deliver breech babies and some won’t. World-acclaimed
midwife, birth educator and activist Ina May Gaskin said in one of her
lectures, “At first, we brought breech pregnancies to the hospital, but
we found after a while that we could deliver them here just fine. Footling
breeches, which are thought to be the most difficult, in our experience, they
often just slid right out.”[2]
However, today more than 90% of breech babies are born by Caesarean [2]. A woman will be hard-pressed
to find a provider who will happily encourage a vaginal birth with a
breech presentation and she will likely find herself in the OR on her big day.
But for any woman wanting to avoid that scenario—great
news!
Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) offers
an extremely gentle, painless procedure with a high success rate for turning
breech babies. Further, TCM offers
suggestions and ideas for how to avoid a
breech presentation in the first place.
To find out more, I interviewed two
doctors considered top in the field:
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Tuesday, October 8, 2013
BOOK REVIEW: Cut It Out: The C-Section Epidemic in America, by Theresa Morris
If you're planning a natural childbirth in the hospital...
I read this new release immediately upon receiving it yesterday. Though I can see its great contribution to these fields, I did not read it from a childbirth provider's, scholar's, or politician's point of view. I read it as a mother who chose home birth at 42 years old---amongst other reasons--to avoid being caught in the "cascade of interventions"--or what I call the "birth template" prepared for us by committees. I read it as someone who writes and advocates for natural childbirth.
Cut It Out, written by Professor Theresa Morris, offers new insight to answer the question: "if most women do not want or choose c-section and most maternity providers claim not to prefer c-section over vaginal birth, why has there been an astronomical increase in the c-section rate in the United States?"
I read this new release immediately upon receiving it yesterday. Though I can see its great contribution to these fields, I did not read it from a childbirth provider's, scholar's, or politician's point of view. I read it as a mother who chose home birth at 42 years old---amongst other reasons--to avoid being caught in the "cascade of interventions"--or what I call the "birth template" prepared for us by committees. I read it as someone who writes and advocates for natural childbirth.
Cut It Out, written by Professor Theresa Morris, offers new insight to answer the question: "if most women do not want or choose c-section and most maternity providers claim not to prefer c-section over vaginal birth, why has there been an astronomical increase in the c-section rate in the United States?"
Monday, September 23, 2013
Is DAD the Ideal Postpartum Doula?
Is DAD the Ideal Postpartum Doula?
by Allie
Chee, with comments from Darren Mattock, Darla Burns, Elly Taylor, and Dr. Ning X. Fu, O.M.D., Ph.D
Postpartum care around the world has well elaborated
traditions that support healing, bonding, and growth for the new family. They
are respected and received by families in all financial strata. These
traditions are considered essential not only to the mother’s immediate
recovery, they’re believed to benefit her subsequent pregnancies, menopause,
and golden years.
The postpartum time for women in the US historically involved at least periods of bed-rest, during which an experienced woman—usually one or several family members—supported the new family.
However, the concept of postpartum care for the family is currently the subject of debate in the United States where
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Wednesday, July 31, 2013
YONI BLISS: Postpartum Care for Our Most Delicate & Tough Body Part
Postpartum Care for Our Most
Delicate
& Tough Body Part!
Our bodies were made to give birth. It’s
natural, it’s miraculous, and when we allow it to…it just happens.
But that doesn’t mean that we emerge from the experience unscathed. Let’s face it—though breastfeeding and
childbirth are the major role of our nipples and yoni[1]—those
delicate parts (and others) take a bit of a beating in childbirth and the early
days postpartum!
Friday, July 12, 2013
Prenatal Glucose Test: Is it Necessary?
Women who are discerning with the things they consume during pregnancy--or at any time in their life--are not likely going to drink the glucose test beverage without, at least, asking: “Is this really necessary?”
When pregnant,
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Wednesday, May 1, 2013
The Secret to Calm & Confidence in Childbirth
The Secret to
CALM & CONFIDENCE in Childbirth
With Excerpts from New Mother
Throughout my thirties I watched not one or two,
but almost all my friends enthusiastically enter the hospital in labor, having
claimed for nine months that they would have a natural birth. Yet they came out
two (or ten) days later having been induced, forced to labor on their back,
drugged, cut, and observed by countless strangers. Their babies had been taken
from them immediately after birth and they were having problems nursing.
I wondered what had gone on behind the doors of the
L&D that all of them were checking out with dramatically altered birth
stories.
In my third trimester I attended an all-day
birthing class at a store for new moms and babies. The women in attendance were
from around the world, highly educated in their fields of work, and well to do
with all conveniences of life available to them.
And yet... here are some things I heard during
class:
Saturday, April 20, 2013
AFTER MISCARRIAGE
AFTER
MISCARRIAGE
Postpartum Care for Mothers Experiencing Loss
By Allie Chee
People in the US are rediscovering the mind/body benefits of
a 30-40 day postpartum recovery period for new moms during which they rest, are
cared for, eat special foods for rejuvenation, and are supported by family and
postpartum care providers. This, of course, leaves mom better able to care for
and bond with her new baby, and to return to her old strength, if not even an
increased vitality—quickly!
In China the term for this time is called “sitting moon” (zuo yuezi in Mandarin—one month being
“one moon”), but cultures throughout Central Asia, Southeast Asia, and the Far
East have similar practices, each with their own special techniques and care
providers. This postpartum care is not considered something only for
Monday, April 15, 2013
NO FEAR of BREECH - The New Mother Cover Story
NO FEAR of BREECH
The New Mother
book cover is based on the image of a woman approximately 32 weeks pregnant—me.
When working on design ideas for the cover, the production team asked me to
send a photo of myself pregnant, and that ended up being the inspiration for
the cover.
But that’s not where the inspiration stopped. In other words, it’s not a literal image.
New Mother Cover Design |
If the baby had been presented exactly as she was positioned
at the time, she would have been head-down, nestled in the pelvic girdle, and
the reader would have a lovely view of her back and bum, or maybe her curled
legs and feet. That could be important for a medical journal, but the artist had
an intention with her cover design. She wanted the baby to interact with the
reader—to say: I’m a participant, aware and involved.
I loved the idea and the image, and the idea that the baby
was “breech” never crossed my mind.
After a reader contacted me saying
Friday, April 12, 2013
Avoiding Exposure to Violence While Pregnant
For a healthy, happy baby
take... a love bath?
•A Texas Twist on an
Of all the unusual things I learned from Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) and Ayurveda about conception and pregnancy, this one caught people’s attention most. Probably because it was the one thing they’d never heard of...and because the effect on the baby is so profound.
Monday, April 1, 2013
A Midwife, Doula, and Postpartum Help for Healthier, Happier Mom, Dad & Baby
Barefoot hippies? Hollywood divas?
Yes, and millions of everyday, hardworking people around the
world who have decided either through their cultural heritage or personal
research that for them, a natural childbirth and postpartum care with the support
of a midwife, doula, and other services makes for the healthiest, safest, and
happiest ways to give birth to and care for the new spirit in their lives.
Natural childbirth in a hospital, home birth, and postpartum
care have become so uncommon in the US (and increasingly in other countries)
that they are now considered by many to be too difficult, unnecessary, or even frivolous.
But, just a glance at the number of women in the US who fail
to have a natural childbirth (when that’s what they intended), fail to breastfeed
(even when they wanted to and tried), and who suffer from
Monday, February 25, 2013
Baby Sign Language is Cool! Easy, Fun Communication with Your Infant Using ASL
After good morning hugs & tickles...signing time! |
BABY SIGN IS COOL!
Easy, Fun Communication With Your Infant
Using ASL
Several years ago I was friends with a deaf[*]
woman and was always intrigued when watching her sign with her baby.
When pregnant I heard about the trend of parents who weren’t
deaf teaching their babies ASL (American Sign Language) or a modified “baby
sign” as a way to create clear, two-way communication before a baby was able to
speak. I knew that parents and babies had many ways to communicate and express
without needing to use sign, but again I was intrigued.
I read several books and websites to learn more. Many
teachers and authors encouraged parents to begin signing with their children
between 6-8 months, and advised that though babies would be learning—they’d usually
remain unable to sign back until 9 months, 12 months, or older.
Encouraging parents to sign with their children at any age
seemed beneficial and fun, but the information I found was a little different
from what I’d observed with my friend and discovered in the deaf community (and
what with a little contemplation makes sense):
deaf parents use sign to communicate with their newborns from day one. Just
like newborns learning to speak from day one with their parents, babies can
learn sign from day one!
Thursday, January 31, 2013
CANCER, CIRCUMCISION & C-SECTION...What Will People Say?
DARK AGE II: REPORT ON THE RITUALS
& BEHAVIORS OF ANCIENT TRIBES LIVING IN NORTH AMERICA FROM 1950-2050.
“The philosophies of one age have become the absurdities of the
next.”
-Sir William Osler
It is now the year 3013,
and in this report we will discuss briefly three rituals and behaviors of the
tribes of people living in North America: the tribe of the United States
collectively called “Americans,” and the tribe of Canada collectively called
“Canadians”—during an era now called “Dark Age II”—1,000 years ago in the
period between 1950-2050. As we’ll see
in this report, Dark Age II was marked by extraordinary aberrations of nature
and a reign of fear, exemplified in these three rituals/behaviors:
Monday, January 21, 2013
CONCEIVING AFTER MISCARRIAGE: When to Try Again & Increasing Ability to Carry Full Term
CONCEIVING
AFTER MISCARRIAGEHere in Part 2, we’ll address the question: When should we try to conceive again? It would be nice if there were one, but the answer is that there is no one answer. Conceiving life is a sacred event, and there is no single fact or consideration that can offer a single best answer for everyone.
However, since there are biological and emotional ramifications of pregnancy and loss, there are factors we should consider when deciding when it’s best to try to conceive again.
The western medical industry essentially considers one factor when making recommendations: What is the statistical likelihood of carrying the next pregnancy full-term when conception happened x amount of time after a miscarriage?”
That is indeed the ultimate question in any woman’s mind. However, the western medical industry offers studies with tremendously conflicting results to answer that question.
For example,
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Monday, December 17, 2012
Natural Childbirth Exercies - Review
Natural Childbirth Exercises |
If we want any performance or undertaking to turn out the
way we envision, training and study are a must—even with natural childbirth.
The good news is: the more we study and train, the more we can release
concerns, look forward with joy, and entrust the outcome to the Divine!
With that in mind, check out this fantastic book by
Rhondda Hartman, mother to 5, grandmother to 9, & trainer to 14,000+
pregnant women…
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Saturday, August 25, 2012
FREE LOVE: Every Ideas for Joyful Living
Release Date: September 21, 2012
In my book, New Mother, I discuss how profit-driven institutions have eliminated all that was natural, loving and sacred in pregnancy and childbirth--and what we can do to reclaim the magic in motherhood.In FREE LOVE, we pick up where New Mother left off. The same institutions have invaded our kitchen, family life, and communities. We've allowed it--but once again--at any income level, with any amount of free time, and starting right now, we can reclaim the magic in our homes and communities.
Available Sept 21, 2012 |
FREE LOVE: RATED G!
We Can Have Exactly What We REALLY Want—Right Now
In 1993, Allie Chee—planning to
move to Calcutta—had a one-hour phone call with Mother Teresa that set her off
on a different journey—one that led to dozens of countries, great adventure,
and unexpected lessons on free love. In communities
around the globe—rich and poor, peaceful and war-torn—she learned that we don't
need more time, we don't need more money, we don't need special skills, and we
don't need to give up anything we enjoy or desire. We can experience more
fun, more joy, more LOVE—we can get our groove back right now—with
the simplest of activities in our kitchen, at home, and in our communities.
The everyday ideas for joyful
living that Allie shares in FREE LOVE are waiting for you. So what are
you waiting for?
Get your groove on and start spreading the love!
ALLIE CHEE has studied Asian martial and healing arts since 1989, earning a 2nd degree black belt and certification in TCM nutrition; she is a 42-year old home birth mom; and author of NEW MOTHER: Using a Doula, Midwife, Postpartum Doula, Maid, Cook, or Nanny to Support Healing, Bonding and Growth; and FREE LOVE: Everyday Ideas for Joyful Living.
Her articles have appeared in The Well Being Journal, The Holistic Networker, The Birthing Site, and MidwiferyToday.
Website: www.alliechee.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/AllieChee
ALLIE CHEE has studied Asian martial and healing arts since 1989, earning a 2nd degree black belt and certification in TCM nutrition; she is a 42-year old home birth mom; and author of NEW MOTHER: Using a Doula, Midwife, Postpartum Doula, Maid, Cook, or Nanny to Support Healing, Bonding and Growth; and FREE LOVE: Everyday Ideas for Joyful Living.
Her articles have appeared in The Well Being Journal, The Holistic Networker, The Birthing Site, and MidwiferyToday.
Website: www.alliechee.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/AllieChee
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